Alternative Services

Every now and again someone asks if I can help with something that doesn't fit neatly into regular escorting or domination. When I say yes, I add it to this page in case anyone else is looking for the same thing.

Health

• Massage (sexual or non-sexual) with a professional table (for female clients)

Personal Development

• Dating and relationship advice
  As a poly, kink-experienced person who has been dating for over a decade and has had hundreds of play partners, I've encountered a lot of complicated situations in the dating and sex world. I can't fix your problems, but I can talk you through my comparable experiences and work through potential approaches with you. Sometimes just talking about something helps.
• Escort industry advice (websites, advertising etc)
  If you're thinking about becoming an escort, it's worth getting some advice first. It's an amazingly fun job if you're in it for the right reasons, but like any job, there are risks and common early mistakes. Ask me about what works well and everything I did badly in the beginning, and save yourself from repeating it.
• Fetish tools training
  If you're new to kink and about to dip your toe in, I'd strongly recommend starting with a mentor. When someone asks me to do this for them, it immediately earns my respect, whether that's because they care about the safety of their play partners in a Dom or Domme role, or about their own safety as a submissive.

Financial Control

• Blackmail and bribery (pre-defined agreement)
• Cash pig
• Real-time or online shopping

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